Mating in Captivity by Esther Perel | Erotic Intelligence, Desire in Long‑Term Love

Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence by EstherPerel explores the paradox of maintaining sexual desire in committed relationships. A renowned couples therapist, Perel draws on over twenty years of work to reveal how domesticity and security often suppress eroticismand how to reignite passion by balancing stability with mystery. Using real case studies, cultural insights, and her signature wit, she shows couples how to sustain lust and intimacy in everyday life 

Key Topics Covered:

• The paradox of security vs. erotic passion

• Creating space for mystery, adventure, and individuality

• Sustaining sexual desire through novelty and risk

• Effects of parenthood and routines on intimacy 

• Case studies and tools to unlock erotic intelligence

• Frameworks like holding desire, renegotiating routines, and balancing closeness and distance

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