The Search to Belong by Joseph R. Myers | Rethinking Intimacy, Community & Small Groups

The Search to Belong equips church leaders and ministry-minded individuals with fresh perspectives on belongingnot just beliefusing spatial frameworks inspired by anthropology and social theory. Myers explores four relational "spaces"Public, Social, Personal, and Intimateand shows how individuals move through each in meaningful connection. He critiques conventional small-group models that impose intimacy prematurely and instead advocates facilitating environments where community can emerge naturally.

Myers offers practical tools for developing group "chemistry," assessing community health, understanding the role of physical space (like "front porches"), and crafting vocabulary that invites belonging without coercion. His approach reframes ministry strategy around participation, authenticity, and relational alignment.

Key Topics Covered:

• Understanding the Myths of Belonging and cultural pressures on small groups 

• The four spaces of connection: public, social, personal, intimatehow they differ and overlap

• Creating group environments that support authentic belonging rather than forced intimacy

• Designing sound language and spatial cues to promote organic community

• Community-health assessment tools for both individuals and organizations 

  
  

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