Send this buyer 3 e mails, also left a message on her phone but absolutely no response for over 3 weeks now.. Why bid if u do not intend paying.. Listing an item on bid or buy costs the seller money via non refundable listing fees.. By bidding and not paying u cause the seller a substantial loss as the item could have gone to other bidders at the time but who have now purchased elsewhere..Please bear this in mind as special listing listing fees are high and non refundable by bid or buy ..