I dont think buyers understand its not just a case of finding another buyer,sellers get charged com / listings fees / time / and now I could of sold the item to someone else in the last 2 weeks but he asked me to keep it for him as he had no money and could only pay at the end of the month which I dont usually do now all of a sudden he does not want it and Im the one who is losing money now least once a week this is happening and quite frankly its bullshit...